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Confidence is a Choice not a Feeling
November 12, 2008
Did you ever notice that often it’s not physical attributes that make people attractive but the way they carry themselves? Sometimes a physically average looking person becomes very attractive from the confidence they exude. They are the ones who are obviously comfortable in their own skin. They have an air of self reliance and control. People are drawn to them, they seem capable and assured.
If you want to be a captivating woman, you must find and own your unique personal style. And wear it with confidence. When I say “style”, I mean the inner qualities that make you original. Your preferences, convictions, talents, interests, quirks and capabilities.
While our outward “packaging” is important (clothes, grooming, the dos and don’ts of flirting and behaviors), if you don’t genuinely like yourself, feel good about who you are inside and walk through your life with positive energy, you will feel and look like an imposter. So love yourself, because you are worth it.
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