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Who Pays For The Date?
June 20, 2009
It’s a question that is discussed and debated all the time.
And there are about as many ways to answer the question of “who pays” as there are people who answer it.
We’ve heard the many opinions……
“Whoever asked for the date pays.”
“The man pays.”
“The man pays for the first date, afterwards paying should be shared.”
“The man pays until there is a commitment.”
“Men and women should go Dutch.”
“Men and women should take turns.”
“Whoever grabs the check first should pay.”
“Men should pay for most of the dates, women should reciprocate sometimes.”
The fact is; there is no right or wrong answer.
People have different ideas of how “money” will be used and disbursed in their dating lives.
And each of the above possibilities comes with meaning, hidden agendas, and/or expectations.
The trick is to find someone with whom you click with-on this issue as well as all the others.
I’ll tell you what I believe.
