I like to define class as an equal mix of Manners and Etiquette.

 

Manners- Being considerate and respectful of others.

 

Etiquette- Set rules or guidelines for behavior in specific situations. (Use of dinner utensils, gift giving, social decorum)

 

Here are some basic tips for both!

Three Guidelines for Great Manners

Treat Everyone With Respect- Don’t save your manners for those you are trying to impress or for those you are grooming to help you in the future.

 

 

Use Tact- It’s always wise to be honest but don’t use honesty as an excuse to say something hurtful.

 

 

Be Considerate- Be on time, show people you value and appreciate them, say “please” and “thank you”, be considerate of other’s comfort.

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From the French, literally translated “I know not what”.

It’s an intangible quality that makes something attractive or alluring.

 

Seduction is all about je ne sais quoi.
It’s about confidence, intelligence, wit and beauty.

 

Being clever and crafty, sexual and haunting.
The way a woman carries herself with a glow of inner peace and tranquility.

 

Je ne sais quoi

 

I was out to dinner the other night at a local 4 star restaurant.

The décor was beautiful the staff gave exceptional personal attention, the food exquisite.
It wasn’t very crowded so I noticed a couple who walked in and was seated near my table.

 

He was an older gentleman, very well dressed and on his arm was a lovely younger woman also very nicely dressed.

By her appearance alone, she looked quite elegant.
But as I watched them periodically throughout the evening, she became less attractive by the minute.

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