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Women Love A Hunter
February 7, 2009
My friend Anne’s divorce is almost final. Recently a pal of hers approached her with great news.
“I have the perfect man for you.” She declared happily.
She went on to tell Anne that a male friend of hers is also single.
“He’s an attractive doctor, upstanding in the community, and all around good man.”
She told Anne that she mentioned her to him and he seemed interested. Turns out they had in fact met many years before when they were both married at a party but don’t really recall much about each other.
Anne agreeing that all of it sounded good and looking forward to dating told her friend that she could pass on to Doctor-Man that she’d be interested in meeting him too.
The friend pulled a business card out of her purse and said, “Great, here’s his card, he told me to tell you to call him.”
What’s that sound? Oh yeah, it’s the air coming out of her balloon.
Topics To Avoid On A First Date
January 27, 2009
If you want a second, third and fourth date, be careful what you talk about on the first. One wrong comment and instead of his being seduced by your beauty, charm and personality he’s recoiling and looking for the door or forming an unintended impression.
We all know how important first impressions are. And because this is so, the pressure to make a perfect one can often backfire on us.
Preoccupation with how we are perceived often results in nervousness which begets a forced or artificial persona, overdoing it, bragging, talking too much or about the wrong subjects.
Take a deep breath and remember you are not running for the presidency. Your only job on a first date is to relax, enjoy yourself and above all portray a light, easy going, positive attitude.
Here are some specific topics to avoid:
Be Seductively Likable
January 4, 2009
The more positive a man feels about his interactions with you, the more he will want to repeat the experience. Let’s face it; we all want to spend time with someone who makes us feel liked and respected when in their presence. How you treat him and what you believe about yourself can greatly affect what he believes about and how he treats you.
Basics for Seduction:
Set Your Goals
December 20, 2008
If you want to find the man of your dreams, you must first be clear about what that means.
When I ask women what they are looking for in a man I get answers like, “Hmm, well he has to be nice, tall, handsome, have a good job…someone I just click with, have chemistry with” or something equally vague along those lines.
While those answers are not bad, they aren’t focused enough to ensure that you won’t waste time with the wrong man. You can “have chemistry” with many men who are “nice, tall, handsome with a good job” but be totally wrong for you. If you depend on your “feelings” to lead you in relationship matters, I guarantee you will be sorry.
Don’t misunderstand, feelings are important. I want you to have attraction and chemistry. But I don’t want you to lead from that place; depending on “clicking” and “chemistry” to tell you who you should date. If you do, those same feelings may confuse you, prevent you from spotting red flags or you’ll spot red flags but ignore them. Or worse, you’ll try to explain them away or plot ways to change them because he gives you butterflies.
Define the Man you Want
Dating Mistakes
December 14, 2008
When a woman is interested in a man, her feelings can get in the way of what she knows a seductress would do and it’s easy to make dating mistakes-Anti-Seductive mistakes- that make his interest wane instead of build. And since most of the women he dates are doing these things, he’ll view you as one of many instead of a unique and seductive creature that he can’t get out of his mind.
Dating Mistakes Women Make:
Should You Approach A Man First?
December 5, 2008
The answer is simply…NO. I realize that sounds antiquated to many. Women have been running companies, governments and their families all at the same time for years. They’ve been setting goals for their lives and making proactive choices to achieve them.
Men and women alike appreciate the opportunities and choices women now have. It’s a fact that women have changed and changed for the better.
But biologically men haven’t changed all that much. Men, generally speaking, are still very much the same. They are achievers and goal oriented by nature. They love the challenge of getting what they want. In life, in buisness and in love. They love not knowing if they will get what they want and they love the feeling of success when they finally do. They love the hunt and the chase after all of their goals including you.
Again I say generally speaking. I realize some men are different (lazy) and I’ll tell you why those are the men you don’t want anyway.
Reasons Why He Doesn’t Approach You
December 2, 2008
There can be all kinds of reasons why a man may not approach a woman that he finds attractive.
I went right to the source one night and asked…
I, my best friend, Anne and our best platonic man-friend, George went out for drinks the other night. We sat up at the bar in this order – George, me then Anne.
Anne spotted an attractive man on the other side of the bar that she wanted to meet. So she did the only thing a woman should EVER have to do to invite a man’s approach:
She gave him eye contact and smiled.