If you want a second, third and fourth date, be careful what you talk about on the first. One wrong comment and instead of his being seduced by your beauty, charm and personality he’s recoiling and looking for the door or forming an unintended impression.

 

We all know how important first impressions are. And because this is so, the pressure to make a perfect one can often backfire on us.

 

Preoccupation with how we are perceived often results in nervousness which begets a forced or artificial persona, overdoing it, bragging, talking too much or about the wrong subjects.

 

Take a deep breath and remember you are not running for the presidency. Your only job on a first date is to relax, enjoy yourself and above all portray a light, easy going, positive attitude.

 

Here are some specific topics to avoid:

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Imagine you’ve had a couple of great dates with a new man. You are excited, attracted and hopeful. But you haven’t heard from him in a few days. You were sure he felt the same connection and now you are wondering why he isn’t calling. You analyze the whole situation with your girlfriends who tell you to call him. In an attempt to keep things moving you do call him, “just to say hi” so that he doesn’t forget you and is reminded that you like him.

Innocent enough, right? I don’t think so…

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When a woman is interested in a man, her feelings can get in the way of what she knows a seductress would do and it’s easy to make dating mistakes-Anti-Seductive mistakes- that make his interest wane instead of build. And since most of the women he dates are doing these things, he’ll view you as one of many instead of a unique and seductive creature that he can’t get out of his mind.

 

Dating Mistakes Women Make:

 

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