If you want a second, third and fourth date, be careful what you talk about on the first. One wrong comment and instead of his being seduced by your beauty, charm and personality he’s recoiling and looking for the door or forming an unintended impression.

We all know how important first impressions are. And because this is so, the pressure to make a perfect one can often backfire on us.

Preoccupation with how we are perceived often results in nervousness which begets a forced or artificial persona, overdoing it, bragging, talking too much or about the wrong subjects.

Take a deep breath and remember you are not running for the presidency. Your only job on a first date is to relax, enjoy yourself and above all portray a light, easy going, positive attitude.

Here are some specific topics to avoid:

                                                                                                               (more…)