I’ve mentioned my friend Anne before….her divorce is almost final and a friend wanted to set her up to meet a nice doctor pal of hers. Anne gave this lady permission to pass on her number.

 

Said man, we’ll call “No voice Vinnie” texted her one day introducing himself and asked if she’d like to get together for a drink sometime.”

 

Assuming he was at work since it was the middle of the day and thought he probably couldn’t talk, didn’t think much of the fact that a man she’d never met reached out for the first time to introduce himself- WITH A TEXT, and texted back that yes, she would.

 

He texted back that he was going on vacation in a matter of days but would like to get together when he returned. She texted that would be fine and to CALL her when he got back.

 

Awhile later, he texted again and said that “tonight was open if she could swing a last minute drink”. She actually could be free for a short time for a quick one so they made plans, VIA  TEXT, to meet later that evening.

 

20 minutes before they were to arrive at the restaurant, he texted her the following:

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Imagine you’ve had a couple of great dates with a new man. You are excited, attracted and hopeful. But you haven’t heard from him in a few days. You were sure he felt the same connection and now you are wondering why he isn’t calling. You analyze the whole situation with your girlfriends who tell you to call him. In an attempt to keep things moving you do call him, “just to say hi” so that he doesn’t forget you and is reminded that you like him.

Innocent enough, right? I don’t think so…

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When a woman is interested in a man, her feelings can get in the way of what she knows a seductress would do and it’s easy to make dating mistakes-Anti-Seductive mistakes- that make his interest wane instead of build. And since most of the women he dates are doing these things, he’ll view you as one of many instead of a unique and seductive creature that he can’t get out of his mind.

 

Dating Mistakes Women Make:

 

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How long should you wait before having sex? As long as possible and there are many reasons why.

 

If you already have a time frame for sex set in your mind: married first, engaged, or at the least in an exclusive relationship, I applaud you for thinking it through and honoring your values. But what if you don’t have boundaries set regarding sex.

 

Then what? Trouble…because that is when one of the following may happen.

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The answer is simply…NO. I realize that sounds antiquated to many. Women have been running companies, governments and their families all at the same time for years. They’ve been setting goals for their lives and making proactive choices to achieve them.

 

Men and women alike appreciate the opportunities and choices women now have. It’s a fact that women have changed and changed for the better.

 

But biologically men haven’t changed all that much. Men, generally speaking, are still very much the same. They are achievers and goal oriented by nature. They love the challenge of getting what they want. In life, in buisness and in love. They love not knowing if they will get what they want and they love the feeling of success when they finally do. They love the hunt and the chase after all of their goals including you.

 

Again I say generally speaking. I realize some men are different (lazy) and I’ll tell you why those are the men you don’t want anyway.

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There can be all kinds of reasons why a man may not approach a woman that he finds attractive.

 

I went right to the source one night and asked…

 

I, my best friend, Anne and our best platonic man-friend, George went out for drinks the other night. We sat up at the bar in this order – George, me then Anne.

 

Anne spotted an attractive man on the other side of the bar that she wanted to meet. So she did the only thing a woman should EVER have to do to invite a man’s approach:

She gave him eye contact and smiled.

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