If you’ve spent any time on this blog you know that I don’t believe women should make the first move with men. See Should You Approach a Man First.

That means not approaching the cute guy at the coffee shop or pub and not calling the friend of a friend you met at Friday night’s party.

I believe in being friendly, open, and approachable and most importantly giving eye contact and smiling which tells a man you’d like HIM to come and get you.

But in the world of online dating, I believe it’s necessary and appropriate to bend these rules. Because through a computer you cannot give a man your radiant smile and eye contact which tells him you’d like him to come forth. If done correctly, you can make the first move via computer and not be regarded at the pursuer. 

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The answer is simply…NO. I realize that sounds antiquated to many. Women have been running companies, governments and their families all at the same time for years. They’ve been setting goals for their lives and making proactive choices to achieve them.

Men and women alike appreciate the opportunities and choices women now have. It’s a fact that women have changed and changed for the better.

But biologically men haven’t changed all that much. Men, generally speaking, are still very much the same. They are achievers and goal oriented by nature. They love the challenge of getting what they want. In life, in buisness and in love. They love not knowing if they will get what they want and they love the feeling of success when they finally do. They love the hunt and the chase after all of their goals including you.

Again I say generally speaking. I realize some men are different (lazy) and I’ll tell you why those are the men you don’t want anyway.

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