It was happy hour at a local restaurant the other day when a cute, all American girl walked in and strut past to join a group of gals. She was wearing tight jeans tucked into knee high black high heeled boots, a multicolored knit top that had cap sleeves and was loose around the body but had a band sewn around the bottom so it fit snug around the waist. She wore long thin chains around her neck that hung to her navel and several metal bangles.

 

Her long blond hair looked backcombed and sprayed for height, she had a decent amount of well applied makeup and perfectly manicured nails painted bright pink. An over-sized yellow leather bag slung on her shoulder.

 

I heard a comment coming from one of the men seated near me at the bar as she past.

“Trying too hard,”  he said.

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Seductresses, you might want to consider choosing to wear a “little red dress” instead of a black one for your next date.

A recent study suggests that wearing red can unconsciously make a man more attracted to you.

 

Studies show that when men were presented with photos of women under a variety of color presentations, the women who were wearing red or surrounded by a red background were significantly more sexually attractive to them. The men were also more likely to treat them to a better or more expensive outing.

Other interesting findings:

 

• The color red only incresed men’s perception of the women’s sexual attractiveness. It did not change how they rated the woman’s likability, intelligence or kindness.
• The color red only affects men, when women rated other women, perceptions of attractiveness did not change.

 

The studies support what our society has already known; the color red has long been associated with love, romance and passion but they also suggest that men’s response to red has bilologcal roots.

“Research has shown that nonhuman male primates are particularly attracted to females displaying red. Female baboons and chimpanzees, for example, redden conspicuously when nearing ovulation, sending a clear sexual signal designed to attract males.”

Check out the article.

 

For myself, I have seemed to receive more compliments when wearing red. I have always believed it is because red compliments my coloring, I am a fair skinned brunette. But now I wonder?…..

Seductresses? Have you noticed receiving more attention while wearing red?

 

If you want to effect a lasting impression on your man, bring all of his senses to life.  

 

Today, let’s talk about sight.

 

It’s been proven that when the senses are engaged in an experience, the memory of the experience is stronger. Weather you are newly dating, in a long term relationship or married, paying attention to the sensual aspects of your environment will affect your relationship in a positive way.

 

Let’s explore…

 

Men are awed by women who naturally and easily express their God given sensuality. They are drawn in and mysteriously spell cast by our femininity. Do you make an effort to bring your best self forward in appearance and attitude or have you become complacent from your routine? Here are some ideas to consider with regards to the sense of “sight”.

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Did you ever notice that often it’s not physical attributes that make people attractive but the way they carry themselves? Sometimes a physically average looking person becomes very attractive from the confidence they exude. They are the ones who are obviously comfortable in their own skin. They have an air of self reliance and control. People are drawn to them, they seem capable and assured.

 

If you want to be a captivating woman, you must find and own your unique personal style. And wear it with confidence. When I say “style”, I mean the inner qualities that make you original. Your preferences, convictions, talents, interests, quirks and capabilities.

 

 While our outward “packaging” is important (clothes, grooming, the dos and don’ts of flirting and behaviors), if you don’t genuinely like yourself, feel good about who you are inside and walk through your life with positive energy, you will feel and look like an imposter. So love yourself, because you are worth it.

 

How to become more Confident 

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