Comments on: How Do I Spice Up My Relationship? http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2009/01/24/how-do-i-spice-up-my-relationship/ Seduce Him and Keep Him! Mon, 06 Sep 2010 00:20:58 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: The Seductress http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2009/01/24/how-do-i-spice-up-my-relationship/#comment-8582 The Seductress Thu, 20 May 2010 16:15:02 +0000 http://www.theseductresswithin.com/?p=306#comment-8582 Steph, Welcome! Ask him about his fantasies and share yours. You may want to act on one or more of them (which will spice things up for sure) but even if you do not, sometimes just sharing them during a sexy conversation can inject an erotic charge that feels very unique and different. Whatever you do, DON'T be critical, judgemental or insecure about whatever he shares about his fantasies. If you punish him for what he says, he may never open up again. People's minds travel to all sorts of wild ideas that they may never want to actually do, yet derive pleasure and excitement from fantasizing about them. If you are brave enough share yours and hear his, it will definately bring your intimacy closer. Steph,

Welcome!

Ask him about his fantasies and share yours. You may want to act on one or more of them (which will spice things up for sure) but even if you do not, sometimes just sharing them during a sexy conversation can inject an erotic charge that feels very unique and different.

Whatever you do, DON’T be critical, judgemental or insecure about whatever he shares about his fantasies. If you punish him for what he says, he may never open up again. People’s minds travel to all sorts of wild ideas that they may never want to actually do, yet derive pleasure and excitement from fantasizing about them. If you are brave enough share yours and hear his, it will definately bring your intimacy closer.

]]> By: steph clegg http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2009/01/24/how-do-i-spice-up-my-relationship/#comment-8563 steph clegg Wed, 19 May 2010 22:09:55 +0000 http://www.theseductresswithin.com/?p=306#comment-8563 hi me and my bf have been together for 2 years im still not very confident abut myself but i really want to spice up our relationahip hav you any ideas ive already done role playing and strip teases but i wanna do summer else hi me and my bf have been together for 2 years im still not very confident abut myself but i really want to spice up our relationahip hav you any ideas ive already done role playing and strip teases but i wanna do summer else

]]> By: The Seductress http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2009/01/24/how-do-i-spice-up-my-relationship/#comment-94 The Seductress Tue, 27 Jan 2009 15:40:25 +0000 http://www.theseductresswithin.com/?p=306#comment-94 George, I've heard the 'hot babe only has sex to offer' complaint before. No matter how gifted one is pysically, he or she must always continue to grow and evolve as a person on the inside. That is the stuff to keep someone seduced for a liftime. Karl, good advice. It sounds like her boyfriend just wants her to see in herself what he already sees! Seductress George, I’ve heard the ‘hot babe only has sex to offer’ complaint before. No matter how gifted one is pysically, he or she must always continue to grow and evolve as a person on the inside. That is the stuff to keep someone seduced for a liftime.

Karl, good advice. It sounds like her boyfriend just wants her to see in herself what he already sees!

Seductress

]]> By: George http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2009/01/24/how-do-i-spice-up-my-relationship/#comment-90 George Sun, 25 Jan 2009 18:15:38 +0000 http://www.theseductresswithin.com/?p=306#comment-90 I would say that sex is the least of the issues here. It sounded like it was a problem of things becoming a routine and then it was all about her lack of confidence in her body. It's the personality that can make a guy want to rock your world in bed. I've been with a variety of woman, from an average Jane to a Hot babe. The average Jane always had me going more so than the hot babe. The hot babe tends to fizzle out pretty quick because that's all she had to offer. If it was just sex I was looking for that's great. If it was something more it got boring. It depends on who are and how confident you feel. I think if she works on feeling more confident in herself, everything else will fall into play. Do what the seductress says, fake it till you can make it. Be confident and he will notice and want you in differnt ways. Both in and out of the bedroom. I would say that sex is the least of the issues here. It sounded like it was a problem of things becoming a routine and then it was all about her lack of confidence in her body. It’s the personality that can make a guy want to rock your world in bed. I’ve been with a variety of woman, from an average Jane to a Hot babe. The average Jane always had me going more so than the hot babe. The hot babe tends to fizzle out pretty quick because that’s all she had to offer. If it was just sex I was looking for that’s great. If it was something more it got boring. It depends on who are and how confident you feel. I think if she works on feeling more confident in herself, everything else will fall into play. Do what the seductress says, fake it till you can make it. Be confident and he will notice and want you in differnt ways. Both in and out of the bedroom.

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