Comments on: Dating & Sex http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2008/12/11/dating-sex/ How to Attract the Man and Relationship You Want! Sat, 31 Jul 2010 09:01:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: valmont http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2008/12/11/dating-sex/#comment-6301 valmont Mon, 18 Jan 2010 05:11:08 +0000 http://www.theseductresswithin.com/?p=122#comment-6301 "when we have sex with a man, it’s almost impossible for our emotions not to deepen. If we give our bodies away too early or too freely with men whom we are not committed and exclusive with we put ourselves at risk for lowered self image when things don’t work out. " I do not necessarily agree with that. that might be the case in the States but in more liberal countries like Canada where I live or scandinavia, women are more independent and sometimes behave "like men" sexually speaking. It has become standard to sleep before the 3rd date with the young crowd (below 30) because women want to test a man before entering a relationship with. ex: I was once dating a women we had sex on the 2nd date (it was dinner at her place), I was too sensitive because I hadn't masturbated for a while and she was too tight so I came too fast...needless to say she lost interest and I never heard from her again although I was still interested in her! so sleeping too quickly can sometimes backfire for the man. As Icebergslim says, guard your penis and f*ck her with your brains! “when we have sex with a man, it’s almost impossible for our emotions not to deepen. If we give our bodies away too early or too freely with men whom we are not committed and exclusive with we put ourselves at risk for lowered self image when things don’t work out. ”

I do not necessarily agree with that. that might be the case in the States but in more liberal countries like Canada where I live or scandinavia, women are more independent and sometimes behave “like men” sexually speaking.

It has become standard to sleep before the 3rd date with the young crowd (below 30) because women want to test a man before entering a relationship with. ex: I was once dating a women we had sex on the 2nd date (it was dinner at her place), I was too sensitive because I hadn’t masturbated for a while and she was too tight so I came too fast…needless to say she lost interest and I never heard from her again although I was still interested in her! so sleeping too quickly can sometimes backfire for the man. As Icebergslim says, guard your penis and f*ck her with your brains!

]]> By: Mikko Kemppe - Relationship Coach http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2008/12/11/dating-sex/#comment-2743 Mikko Kemppe - Relationship Coach Thu, 06 Aug 2009 19:40:23 +0000 http://www.theseductresswithin.com/?p=122#comment-2743 Hey Seductress! Just wanted to drop in and say that is great advice! I agree. And if any of your readers need additional confirmation of those same principles from a man's point of view, here is what I said: http://relationship-journal.com/2009/06/16/do-men-just-want-sex-should-my-decision-be-to-wait-or-not-to-wait/ Hey Seductress! Just wanted to drop in and say that is great advice! I agree. And if any of your readers need additional confirmation of those same principles from a man’s point of view, here is what I said:

http://relationship-journal.com/2009/06/16/do-men-just-want-sex-should-my-decision-be-to-wait-or-not-to-wait/

]]> By: -NN- http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2008/12/11/dating-sex/#comment-2664 -NN- Fri, 31 Jul 2009 17:07:14 +0000 http://www.theseductresswithin.com/?p=122#comment-2664 "When a man has sex with a woman before he has feelings for her, his interest in her doesn’t grow, it lessens. If he’s had you before he respects, likes, or values you as a person, it isn’t likely that he will stick around long enough for those endearments to occur. And those things take time. He cannot possibly know you enough to care for, respect and value you within a few weeks time." You have written exactly how I feel about men. I can't respect someone like that, if they give me sex easily - then the attraction dissapates, I lose my interest as I didn't get my O and they are out since they were not man enough. Why would I meet a man for a second time since he couldn't deliver the first time? And he can't satisfy me if he hasn't touched my feelings - and that takes weeks (I know that from experience) “When a man has sex with a woman before he has feelings for her, his interest in her doesn’t grow, it lessens. If he’s had you before he respects, likes, or values you as a person, it isn’t likely that he will stick around long enough for those endearments to occur. And those things take time. He cannot possibly know you enough to care for, respect and value you within a few weeks time.”

You have written exactly how I feel about men.
I can’t respect someone like that, if they give me sex easily - then the attraction dissapates, I lose my interest as I didn’t get my O and they are out since they were not man enough.
Why would I meet a man for a second time since he couldn’t deliver the first time?
And he can’t satisfy me if he hasn’t touched my feelings - and that takes weeks (I know that from experience)

]]> By: hunter http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2008/12/11/dating-sex/#comment-237 hunter Sun, 15 Feb 2009 23:13:15 +0000 http://www.theseductresswithin.com/?p=122#comment-237 To add to that, a woman over 50, no longer bonds after having sex with a man. It is her choice to continue seeing him or forget him. To add to that, a woman over 50, no longer bonds after having sex with a man. It is her choice to continue seeing him or forget him.

]]> By: hunter http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2008/12/11/dating-sex/#comment-233 hunter Sun, 15 Feb 2009 08:53:29 +0000 http://www.theseductresswithin.com/?p=122#comment-233 To goddess and seductress, I have heard, having sex, is like applying super glue at the short hair site. Some women say, having dinner together creates a bond even more powerful. Is this just a myth? To goddess and seductress, I have heard, having sex, is like applying super glue at the short hair site. Some women say, having dinner together creates a bond even more powerful. Is this just a myth?

]]> By: Dating Goddess http://www.theseductresswithin.com/2008/12/11/dating-sex/#comment-10 Dating Goddess Sun, 21 Dec 2008 18:57:59 +0000 http://www.theseductresswithin.com/?p=122#comment-10 You are so right! So many women -- even the midlife dating women I write for -- give in too early. There's lots at play -- our neediness, his persuasiveness, that it feels so good so why not? But you are right that if it too soon, he'll go "poof" without a second's look back. I've written on similar issues at Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40 in case you'd like to read more on other topics like this. Dating Goddess http://www.DatingGoddess.com You are so right! So many women — even the midlife dating women I write for — give in too early. There’s lots at play — our neediness, his persuasiveness, that it feels so good so why not? But you are right that if it too soon, he’ll go “poof” without a second’s look back.

I’ve written on similar issues at Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40 in case you’d like to read more on other topics like this.

Dating Goddess
http://www.DatingGoddess.com

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