Comments on: Should You Approach A Man First?

By: Bronze

Bronze — Sun, 18 Jul 2010 23:27:55 +0000

Equal rights has nothing to do with relationships. Sorry. I appreciate the feminist movement for what it did for women in terms of giving us more autonomy in our lives and not having to depend on a man to survive….but society can change all it wants, men and women are still gonna be the same.

I completely agree with this article, I was raised to believe the same thing. My daddy taught me this logic and it is true. That’s why I’m so thankful I had my dad around to put me on some game because he’s gonna tell me what a man REALLY thinks, and what do ya know, everything your post says goes along with that! (I wanted to add my father approached my mother and chased and pursued her before they got married)

There are 2 types of women: women who chase men and women who get approached by men. A lot of guys will tell girls that they should do the approaching, and if I was a guy I’d probably be doing the same thing too. Why not up your chances of girls (possible sex partners) coming to you? But that doesn’t really benefit most women.

By: hunter

hunter — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 03:53:49 +0000

Sandy, your admirer may be one of the many men, with a low sex drive. This type of man, may never approach you.

By: The Seductress

The Seductress — Thu, 20 May 2010 16:04:48 +0000

Amen Sandy, and welcome.

All you have to do is give him some eye contact and most importantly, smile. That is his welcome mat to approach!

By: Sandy

Sandy — Thu, 20 May 2010 15:51:08 +0000

I believe in exactly what you are saying, regarding men. There is a man @ my gym, and he is hot!!, handsome, and I find him very attractive, but, should I advance to him, and cut thru the chase. NO WAY…. I want a man to come to me, and woo me, and seek me. Not every other, little girl that wooos over him. I stand out to him, I know, because, he can’t take his eyes off of me. I am a secure, confident woman, who knows what she wants. I am willing to wait, and the get the best. Men, have to look, and think, and mull it over in their cavemen heads, I know that is exactly what this man is doing. Everyday, he is coming in a little earlier to the gym, and watches me. It’s like I am his interest, and he is waiting for the opportune time to pounce., He is good to daydream about, and it if does not come to fruition, he loss, not mine.

By: That_guy

That_guy — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:45:35 +0000

Hmmm, it seems that women want to have their cake and eat it too. I’ve seen cases where the women are afraid of rejection, so they use “I want the man to ask” as a fall back excuse.

It’s like women want to be treated equally in all ways… except dating, where they want to have all the control.

By: gifted_adult

gifted_adult — Sat, 31 Jan 2009 23:47:22 +0000

Hello there!

That article is one of the most generalized i ever seen!

“I realize some men are different (lazy) and I’ll tell you why those are the men you don’t want anyway.”

Some are maybe lazy, and some are more sophisticated and requires sophisticated (different) approach!

Times are changing, as we do, and my humble opinion is - there’s no rule who will/must approach first! Oh yes, and the most important fact is that usually some of most quality man are unobtrusive… and the story begins…