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Do Women Eat on Dates?
December 28, 2008
We’ve all heard the stereotype that women don’t eat on dates. They order a few crackers and a celery stick and can’t finish them or worse an entire entrée but just pick at it and move it around their plate.
I wondered just how true this could be.
So I asked some of my single friends if they eat on dates and most of them either eat lightly or pick. The reasons they gave are “I’m too nervous” or “I’m too self conscious about how I look eating in front of someone new”. After a few of my own dates had commented on how refreshing it was to see a woman actually eat on a date (I eat) I realized this is in fact a huge phenomenon.
Imagine you’ve had a couple of great dates with a new man. You are excited, attracted and hopeful. But you haven’t heard from him in a few days. You were sure he felt the same connection and now you are wondering why he isn’t calling. You analyze the whole situation with your girlfriends who tell you to call him. In an attempt to keep things moving you do call him, “just to say hi” so that he doesn’t forget you and is reminded that you like him.
Innocent enough, right? I don’t think so…
Set Your Goals
December 20, 2008
If you want to find the man of your dreams, you must first be clear about what that means.
When I ask women what they are looking for in a man I get answers like, “Hmm, well he has to be nice, tall, handsome, have a good job…someone I just click with, have chemistry with” or something equally vague along those lines.
While those answers are not bad, they aren’t focused enough to ensure that you won’t waste time with the wrong man. You can “have chemistry” with many men who are “nice, tall, handsome with a good job” but be totally wrong for you. If you depend on your “feelings” to lead you in relationship matters, I guarantee you will be sorry.
Don’t misunderstand, feelings are important. I want you to have attraction and chemistry. But I don’t want you to lead from that place; depending on “clicking” and “chemistry” to tell you who you should date. If you do, those same feelings may confuse you, prevent you from spotting red flags or you’ll spot red flags but ignore them. Or worse, you’ll try to explain them away or plot ways to change them because he gives you butterflies.
Define the Man you Want
Dating Mistakes
December 14, 2008
When a woman is interested in a man, her feelings can get in the way of what she knows a seductress would do and it’s easy to make dating mistakes-Anti-Seductive mistakes- that make his interest wane instead of build. And since most of the women he dates are doing these things, he’ll view you as one of many instead of a unique and seductive creature that he can’t get out of his mind.
Dating Mistakes Women Make:
Dating & Sex
December 11, 2008
How long should you wait before having sex? As long as possible and there are many reasons why.
If you already have a time frame for sex set in your mind: married first, engaged, or at the least in an exclusive relationship, I applaud you for thinking it through and honoring your values. But what if you don’t have boundaries set regarding sex.
Then what? Trouble…because that is when one of the following may happen.
Should You Approach A Man First?
December 5, 2008
The answer is simply…NO. I realize that sounds antiquated to many. Women have been running companies, governments and their families all at the same time for years. They’ve been setting goals for their lives and making proactive choices to achieve them.
Men and women alike appreciate the opportunities and choices women now have. It’s a fact that women have changed and changed for the better.
But biologically men haven’t changed all that much. Men, generally speaking, are still very much the same. They are achievers and goal oriented by nature. They love the challenge of getting what they want. In life, in buisness and in love. They love not knowing if they will get what they want and they love the feeling of success when they finally do. They love the hunt and the chase after all of their goals including you.
Again I say generally speaking. I realize some men are different (lazy) and I’ll tell you why those are the men you don’t want anyway.
Reasons Why He Doesn’t Approach You
December 2, 2008
There can be all kinds of reasons why a man may not approach a woman that he finds attractive.
I went right to the source one night and asked…
I, my best friend, Anne and our best platonic man-friend, George went out for drinks the other night. We sat up at the bar in this order – George, me then Anne.
Anne spotted an attractive man on the other side of the bar that she wanted to meet. So she did the only thing a woman should EVER have to do to invite a man’s approach:
She gave him eye contact and smiled.