Today, let’s talk about the sense of Hearing.

 

Sound can be very powerful: waves crashing on the shore, leaves crunching under your feet, children laughing, a slot machine that just hit the jackpot. Some sounds relax us, some annoy us, and some seduce us like a compliment from our lover or his whisper or moan.

 

You have the power to impact your husband or even your first date by making sure he’s affected positively by what he hears…

 

Here are some basic dos and don’ts to keep in mind.

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If you want to effect a lasting impression on your man, bring all of his senses to life.  

 

Today, let’s talk about sight.

 

It’s been proven that when the senses are engaged in an experience, the memory of the experience is stronger. Weather you are newly dating, in a long term relationship or married, paying attention to the sensual aspects of your environment will affect your relationship in a positive way.

 

Let’s explore…

 

Men are awed by women who naturally and easily express their God given sensuality. They are drawn in and mysteriously spell cast by our femininity. Do you make an effort to bring your best self forward in appearance and attitude or have you become complacent from your routine? Here are some ideas to consider with regards to the sense of “sight”.

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Did you ever notice that often it’s not physical attributes that make people attractive but the way they carry themselves? Sometimes a physically average looking person becomes very attractive from the confidence they exude. They are the ones who are obviously comfortable in their own skin. They have an air of self reliance and control. People are drawn to them, they seem capable and assured.

 

If you want to be a captivating woman, you must find and own your unique personal style. And wear it with confidence. When I say “style”, I mean the inner qualities that make you original. Your preferences, convictions, talents, interests, quirks and capabilities.

 

 While our outward “packaging” is important (clothes, grooming, the dos and don’ts of flirting and behaviors), if you don’t genuinely like yourself, feel good about who you are inside and walk through your life with positive energy, you will feel and look like an imposter. So love yourself, because you are worth it.

 

How to become more Confident 

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I asked my boyfriend the other night what he found seductive about a woman. He said that many “types” of women can be seductive in their own way. He said all of them have a unique appeal but it’s the total package that most men are looking for. Not surprisingly he mentioned the popular archetypes of seductresses we’ve all seen in movies or have read about in literature.

 

Librarian- She isn’t the typical seductress. She doesn’t exactly set out to seduce by being demure, aloof, quiet and smart. But men often find her seductive anyway, because the fantasy is to corrupt her. He wants to bring the fire out from underneath her conservative, prudish clothes. He imagines how fun it would be to unwind that tight bun and see her hair messed up from hot sex.

 

The Siren- She’s not afraid of the power of her sexuality. She wears it on her sleeve and uses it to her advantage. Men feel more masculine just being in her presence. Their senses are heightened, the air around her is sexually charged. She may be vulnerable like Marilyn Monroe, or strong like Mae West, but she’s always sensual, oozing femininity and sex appeal. She couldn’t help it if she tried.

 

The Temptress- She is naughty. She has little regard for boundaries. She’s looking to receive and give pleasure pure and simple. Her power lies in the promise of a most memorable sexual experience, the possibility of getting caught, throwing caution to the wind, doing something wild. She represents escape and is willing to deliver.

 

The Coquette- She is a master at keeping a man in a state of wanting more by vacillating between hot and cold behavior. The prize is always just around the corner, just out of reach so he pursues all the more. His competitive nature keeps him focused on winning the game; he wants to conquer her.

 

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